Saturday, 3 July 2010

The Paradox of Our Age - Dalai Lama

The Paradox of Our Age
by The Dalai Lama

We have bigger houses but smaller families;
More conveniences, but less time;
We have more degrees, but less sense;
More knowledge, but less judgment;
More experts, but more problems;
More medicines, but less healthiness;
We've been all the way to the moon and back,
But have trouble crossing the street to meet the new neighbor.
We build more computers to hold more information
To produce more copies than ever but have less communication.
We have become long on quantity, but short on quality.
These are times of fast foods but slow digestion;
Tall man but short character;
Steep profits but shallow relationships.
It's a time when there is much in the window,
but nothing in the room.

I saw this on Anna's blog & was pretty wow-ed by the words of this controversial leader. He has a point here. A really big issue that all of us are trying to rectify.

How often do we put performance before persons? Or put charisma before character? Do we seek to keep our pay while neglecting or disregarding our colleagues?

Have we forgotten what it means to be human?

I sometimes do forget what it means to love people unconditionally. In my office there is this guy that is always "bullied" and gang-banged whenever he does a small thing wrong. They label him "idiot" and all...But to me, he is a really, really nice guy that'd go the extra mile for you.

But because of his somewhat blur-ness, playfulness and un-tactful frankness, people disregard him. But I like his straight-forwardness and candour. As for his playfulness, I just play along so long he doesn't go overboard (he seldom does go overboard). As for his blur-ness, it's what makes him uniquely cute. Haha. Add it all together and it will equate to him. Take anything away from that equation and he'll no longer be who he is.

Everyone wants to make a living and wants to be accepted, respected and loved...Sometimes we ought to check ourselves first before ostracizing yet another...

If only we'd accept more, judge less; trust more, assume less; extend grace more, condemn less...This reminds me of the song "If Everyone Cared" by Nickelback. How true does this truth resound?



How foolish mankind can sometimes be, rectifying the problems at the surface and not rectifying the root of the problem...our odious, deceitful, heinous, selfish and sinful heart.

I know only of one known cure for the heart...And I've installed this anti-virus into my system. That cure, that anti-virus is Jesus.

God, please keep my heart ever so soft toward your people. For after all, this is what life is about...Relationships, people. Let me not veer away from this deep conviction that so many people lack today :) Amen. :D

POP!! (Not me)

It's a Saturday afternoon and I'm stuck here in SFT (SAF Ferry Terminal) monitoring the in & out process of the POP-ing recruits and their parents...I am the sea-ferry, bus and RPL in charge...that's why I have to sit in here and monitor and rectify any cock-ups...haha

Yesterday I had the privilege to shake the hands of 4 privates...Private Calvin (from MI) , Private Delson (Bethel) & Private Walter (Bethel) and Private Sebastian Li (Bethel). Seeing them POP evokes within me a heavy sense of nostalgia...reminiscing the days we were shouted at and the days where we had to do everything right. Haha. I only expected to see Delson that day but apparently my network extends further than I know it to be... :D Haha. Whatever...

Now I stand here smiling at the future officers, sergeants, men & their parents :D

Well, I'm stuck here in Penguin office blogging this post...I'm not even sure if I'm allowed to use this computer...HAHAHAHA! :D

And because of this compulsory overtime job, I MISSED THE MM BBQ!!! -___-" Oh well, thumb-sucking is something we all SAF personnel are really good at...LOLS :D

So yeah...see you guys soon :D

Monday, 28 June 2010

Interview with God

Came across this email in my inbox from Alvin Fan :) I thought that the content is really inspiring and serves as an important reminder to us on how should we live our life :D

Interview With God
I dreamed I had an interview with God.
“So you would like to interview me?” God asked
“If you have the time” I said.
God smiled, “My time is eternity”
“What questions do you have in mind for me?”
I replied “What surprises you most about humankind?...”

God answered...
“That they get bored with childhood.
They rush to grow up and then long to be children again.”

“That they lose their health to make money
and then lose their money to restore their health.”

That by thinking anxiously about the future,
they forget the present, such that they live in neither
the present nor the future.”

"That they live as if they will never die,
and die as if they had never lived.”

God’s hand took mine and we were silent for awhile.
And then I asked...
“As a parent, what are some of life’s lessons you want your children to learn?”

God replied with a smile...

“To learn they cannot make anyone love them.
What they can do is let themselves be loved.”

“To learn that it is not good to compare themselves to others.”

“To learn that a rich person is not one who has the most, but is one who needs the least.”

“To learn that it only takes a few seconds to open profound wounds in persons we love...
and that it takes many years to heal them.”

“To learn to forgive by practicing forgiveness.”

“To learn that there are persons who love them dearly,
but simply do not know how to express or show their feelings.”

“To learn that two people can look at the same thing and see it differently.”

“To learn that it is not always enough that they be forgiven by others.
But that they must forgive themselves.”

“And to learn that I am here always.”

"Be joyful always; pray continually; give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God's will for you in Christ Jesus."
1 Thess 5:16-18

The bolded statements are those that've pierced my heart. I wonder, how many of us have actually surprised God? :)

Sunday, 27 June 2010

Measure of a Man

I bumped into this TOTALLY AWESOME song recently man...It's an 11 year-old song but it still speaks VOLUMES on what actually makes me, ME :D Enjoy the song man! :)



MEASURE OF A MAN
4Him                     Key: C
Christian Contemporary

THIS WORLD CAN ANALYZE AND SIZE YOU UP
AND THROW YOU ON THE SCALES
THEY CAN I.Q. YOU AND RUN YOU THROUGH
THEIR RIGOROUS DETAILS
THEY CAN DO THEIR BEST TO RATE YOU
AND THEY'LL PLACE YOU ON THE CHARTS
AND THEN BACK IT UP WITH SCIENTIFIC SMARTS
BUT THERE'S MORE TO WHAT YOU'RE WORTH
THAT THEIR HUMAN EYES CAN’T SEE

Chorus:
OH, I SAY THE MEASURE OF A MAN
IS NOT HOW TALL YOU STAND
HOW WEALTHY OR INTELLIGENT YOU ARE
'COS I'VE FOUND OUT THE MEASURE OF A MAN
GOD KNOWS AND UNDERSTANDS
FOR HE LOOKS INSIDE
TO THE BOTTOM OF YOUR HEART
AND WHAT'S IN THE HEART DEFINES
THE MEASURE OF A MAN

WELL, YOU CAN DOUBT YOUR WORTH
AND SEARCH FOR WHO YOU ARE
AND WHERE YOU STAND
BUT GOD MADE YOU IN HIS IMAGE
WHEN HE FORMED YOU IN HIS HANDS
AND HE LOOKS AT YOU WITH MERCY
AND HE SEES YOU THROUGH HIS LOVE
YOU'RE HIS CHILD
AND THAT WILL ALWAYS BE ENOUGH
FOR THERE'S MORE TO WHAT YOU'RE WORTH
THAN YOU COULD EVER COMPREHEND

Bridge:
YOU CAN SPEND YOUR LIFE PERSUING
PHYSICAL PERFECTION
THERE IS SO MUCH MORE
MORE THAN EVER MEETS THE EYE
FOR GOD LOOKS THROUGH THE SURFACE
AND HE DEFINES YOUR WORTH BY
WHAT IS ON THE INSIDE

I hope this song encourages you when people around you judge you by THEIR standards, not GOD'S STANDARD. :)
 
However, don't use this song to right your wrongs...Evaluate what people say about you and change accordingly...But when they heave their unreasonable expectations and judge you heavily, let this song encourage your heart :)
 
God Bless :D

I'm Lovin' It :D

My new 7am-5pm job's awesome man...on Thursday night met up with Jon Wee, Joella and Yining for dinner @ chomp chomp :D We ate till around 8.30pm before we left to meet Anne, Aaron Chua, Ding Zhou & Matthew for a game of L4D2!! :D

We played from 9pm-1am!! HAHAHA! Dua lao sai!! Thanks Aaron for fetching me home!! :D :)

That was Thursday. Friday my new department had a BBQ cum chalet outing :D It is formally called TMS cohesion...I still can't remember what TMS stands for...Training Main Section? Hahaha. Whatever.

So yeah, had a great time playing cards there and gulping down my new boss' favourite mutton soup. Haha. MAJOR (RET) Lim is my new boss. He's a retired major.

Other than playing cards with 'em, I also had several convos with many ppl...asking them about their jobs, who are the troublemakers and backstabbers, what to look out for etc... :D haha. I gathered quite a lot of intel that day :D haha. LOLS! :)

After that I headed to cell group where we simply played Monopoly Deal all the way. LOLS! It's the latest card game craze going around town now...I see my friends playing it in army...I see my friends playing it in church...Next I'll see my family playing it..haha.

AND Saturday! As Lebbillie is about to leave soon, I decided to go out with her and her clique. We had a picnic @ Marina Barrage! :D Haha. Armed with "ground sheets", guitar, monopoly deal, Taboo, chips, tuna biscuits (made by Xin Jin), drinks, cups, tentage, kites, etc...we headed down to Marina Barrage to set up camp. Haha.

We simply just had fun. Kite flying, guitar playing & singing songs, shouting & screaming over Taboo and HAVING MY SECRETS REVEALED -___-" So much for two-way convos..... -.-" Haha.

And I must say, kite flying is FUN MAN! I wana arm my kite with knives next time...so that I can go around cutting people's lines...HAHAHA! I don't just love flying kite...I love to use my kite to bang and entangle other people's kites :D :D HAHAHA! Just ask the rest and they'll let you know my kite-flying style :D

I really had fun man :D Thanks Lebbillie, Yang Cheng, Joel, Xin Jing & Debbie for making the outing so much fun :) Haha. And of course, thank myself for climaxing the fun :D :D HAHAHAHA!

After our "outfield operation" we headed to more urban terrain...We went to Suntec for dinner in Crystal Jade Bao or something like that la...haha.

Xin Jin, Joel & Myself :)

Yang, Lebbillie, Debbie, Xin Jin, Joella & ME :D

And you thought we were done after dinner...We continued playing Monopoly deal! HAHAHA! Ok, we only played one round la...Haha.

So yup, it's been some time since I had this kinda fun man...Anyway, many upcoming outings & chalets dot my calendar :D So whoo hoo! :D Time to enjoy man!! Post-trainee enjoyment :D Hahaha! LOLS!

AND I STILL NEED HELP WITH MY VIDEO EDITING!! -_-" Just cutting & joining a video seems so hard...Melvin & Ps Aaron also couldn't help me with my problem man...I needa ask the MAN...Joella :D HAHA!

Yup, on with my wonderful week :D