Friday The 13th

Some stuffs happened in bunk on this 'cursed' day. Haha. 2 skirmishes erupted in bunk.

1) REC A scolds REC B for bringing back the fake grenade he tossed after our HG (Hand Grenade) Lesson 1.

My verdict: REC A was in a bad mood?

Don't know why he'd want to make a big fuss out of it. Not like he has every right to scold him for it. After all, we're all humans and mistakes occassionally occur, why condemn and make a mountain out of a molehill? His defense was "One day REC B might bring back a real grenade!"

My rebuttal would be "He won't be able to bring back a real grenade cos after throwing it, it'd explode to smitherines."

I didn't say anything during that clash cos I'm too tired of trying to talk to some of my bunkmates. Cos some of 'em are too self-righteous. Well, POP soon liao, I shan't address all these stuffs personally.

2) REC C scolds REC A for pridefully and rudely flinging his stuff aside.

My verdict: I guess Friday the 13th really can be spooky? HAHA!

I don't know why REC A would wanna do something so impertinent. Basic respect should be given at any point in relational exchanges. Although REC A might have his personal reasons to do so, it still does not justify his actions - He could have talked it out with REC C.

So yeah, I personally like REC A though. He's a nice, friendly and jovial guy. Don't know what went wrong that day. Haha.

But yeah, sometimes we humans love to receive grace and mercy but don't like to extend it to others, condemning each other over such trivial mistakes. I wonder, what will the condemner feel if the same were done back to the one who throws the condemnation?

Empathy is a great lack in self-righteous people too. My platoon's got a few "red indian chiefs" (as quoted by KC) that always commands here and there, shouting here and there but in the end, how much does YOUR shouting help?

Granted, out of your "enthusiasm" you blurted it out. Then, you should apologise & explain yourself personally to the person you've shouted at to prevent hurt and bitterness. Furthermore, What fuels your "enthusiasm" that you must shout & demand? Fear of getting tekan-ed? Impatience?

Your shouting has to come from a established relationship w/ the person if not, you'll just be a anal, loud, selfish yeller to that person you're shouting at.

Bunch of shallow, selfish wayang-ers. Haha. Pardon my blatant revelation. But leaders inspire people to do things right, not shout at them to do things right. I pity those that have to mingle around them.

For me, I've built a wall of immunity. A wall that distances myself from them. So they may think I'm blur or wadsoeva, cos I sometimes do act blur, but in actual fact, I've cut them out. Not totally though, (I never fully cut people off) I still smile and talk nicely to them :)

O well, I'm POPPING in 3 weeks time! Whoo hoo! I hope I'll be much more of myself in my next posting man! Go Jonavan! :D